Sometimes it seems the American dream is "I can do
anything, achieve anything, build anything on my own." That is the lone-ranger-pioneer-spirit and it
may in effect make us believe that we can do everything alone—"pull yourself
up by your bootstraps" stuff.
But the truth is that no matter how good we are we really
can't do it all alone. A Chinese proverb says, "Behind an able person
there are always other able people." In another eastern work with which
you are familiar, Ecclesiastes, chapter 4:9-10 says, "Two are better than
one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his
friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him
up!"
Team work is at the heart of great achievement. We would be
hard pressed to think of one act of genuine significance in the history of
humankind that was performed by a lone human being. Even Christ on the cross was part of the team
plan of the trinity, and His plan for gospel to the world involved a team
called the church.
Down deep we know that team work is the way to achieve
something big, yet we still try and go it alone. Why?
John Maxwell shares three of the many reasons.
Ego—we don't like to admit we can't do it all. Andrew Carnegie
once said, "It marks a big step in your development when you come to
realize that other people can help you do a better job than you could do alone.
Insecurity—I want to maintain control or I'm afraid of being
replaced by someone more capable.
Naiveté—John Gehegan, president of US Business Advisors keeps a
sign on his desk that says, "If I
had it to do all over again, I'd get help."
Nobody is a whole team. None of us is a whole independent,
self-sufficient, super, capable, all-powerful, hotshot; let's quit acting like
we are. Life is lonely enough without
playing that silly role. The game is over. Let's link up.
Rethink going it alone.
Take some time to consider how you can become more of team player—with
family, work, spiritual development.
Think about whom you should be working with to achieve what God is
calling you to do.
Remember Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 "Two are better than one,
because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend
can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him
up!"
ENCOUNTER: How does "team work" play into your Christian
walk? Where are you doing things alone
in your spiritual growth? How might
"linking up" impact your journey?
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